Stop trying to find the right person, be the right person. Instead of being with someone who makes you happy, first, be someone who makes you happy.
本节要点：
(复习)
stop doing sth.
- if you stop doing something, you do not continue to do it
ex) I stopped eating and looked at him.
stop to do sth.
- to pause in an activity, in order to do something else before you continue
ex) I stopped to tie my shoe.
forget doing sth.—— I forgot closing the windows before getting into bed last night" means that you lost your memory of having closed the windows before you got into bed last night. The sentence may be expressed like this: "I forgot that I had closed the windows before getting into bed last night.”
forget to do sth.—— ‘ I forgot to close the windows before getting into bed last night.’ means that, before you got into bed last night, you failed to recall your intention to close the windows before getting into bed, so, you did not close the windows before getting into bed last night.
instead [adv.]
相反，取而代之的是
ex) Jeff didn’t study law. Instead, he decided to become an actor.
If Joe can’t attend the meeting, I could go instead.
instead of sth./somebody
代替
ex) Instead of studying law, Jeff decided to become an actor.
I could go instead of Joe if he can’t attend the meeting.
Could I have tuna instead of ham?
Instead of being annoyed, he seemed quite pleased.
